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What good parent doesn’t want their kids to be happy and successful? But how do we do that, exactly<\/em>?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We compliment and affirm, support them, tell them to chase their dreams, and teach them to live for something bigger than themselves. What else can we do?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

According to experts, we should teach them how to be resilient and confident and build their sense of worthiness.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Beyond that, here are five effective ways to build your child’s self-esteem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give Your Child Responsibilities<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Studies<\/a> show that children given age-appropriate responsibilities from an early age become highly successful adults.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give them choices, too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Having options and choices makes a child feel validated – that their opinion and what they think matters. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Give young children some simple chores around the house. And let them choose between pancakes or waffles.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Their range of responsibilities and choices should grow with them as they grow to help prepare them for more challenging decisions they’ll face later on in life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Will they whine and complain? Sure, probably at first, but they’ll thank you later. So, stay the course. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Create Opportunities for Growth<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Observe what your child enioys and captures their interest. Then help them grow by setting achievable goals in their areas of interest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This opens new opportunities for your kids and builds confidence as they learn something new, and even making new friends as their social circle expands.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Remember, what interests them might not interest you. Support them anyway because they need to feel accepted by their parents. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You might want them to play varsity basketball, but if they love painting instead, show your support; and whatever you do, don’t focus on their weaknesses and shortcomings. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Help Your Child See the Bright Side of Failures<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

As parents, our hearts beam with pride when our kids master new skills and achievements. However, they won’t always win; they will sometimes mess up and fail. It’s human to make mistakes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Please let your child know that you’re not seeking or demanding perfection.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It’s about effort and progress, even if it means failing along the way sometimes, because while failing<\/a> is never pleasant, it’s a crucial part of learning and growing up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Failure keeps them humble, too, and can build resilience, helping them have the courage to persevere and try again, which isn’t even easy for adults.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, our job as parents is to show our kids that we love and accept them no matter what. Period. No questions asked. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Use failure to train them to have a good attitude during difficult moments, to be positive, gracious, and kind, and to always stay persistent and persevere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Praise from Your Heart<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Is your praise empty or heartfelt? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kids are intuitive and know if you mean it or are just going through the motions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The next time you affirm or praise your kid, make sure it’s heartfelt and be specific.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Look them in the eye and tell them exactly<\/em> why you feel like you do -be specific, and let them know what caught your attention and why.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Affirming your child this way might not seem like a big deal to you, but it makes them feel accepted and loved unconditionally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Avoid Sarcasm<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

It’s easy to become frustrated and say things we don’t mean when the stress and demands of life get the better of us. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

But we must be careful because kids take everything to heart. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When we blurt out sarcastic comments or jokes, they pick up on our tone and choice of language.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Remember, your child always seeks your approval, even if they pretend not to care. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

They want you to notice them and be proud of them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

At the same time, we can be overly critical of them: they’re lazy, misbehave, and talk back. But saying these harsh, sarcastic things doesn’t motivate them; it only makes things worse. Not only will you regret saying it, but your child will also develop a negative view of themselves. This impacts their emotional and psychological health, which undermines their self-esteem<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, the next time your child frustrates you, take a few minutes to cool down before blurting out hurtful words and accusations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As you can see, these five tips are pretty simple but will significantly impact your child because they make you a much better parent. Choose one or two to start implementing right now to help your child unlock their best life!<\/p>\n<\/span>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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